How Do I Deal With Two Backstabbing Co-workers And A Boss That Doesn't Care?

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Fedup66
     What an unfortunate, but all to common situation.  I don't agree that looking for a new job is the solution because this kind of nonsense happens in most every work place!!!  I would recommend slowly avoiding these losers.  Be cordial to keep the peace and do engage in only work related objectives - don't get personal or discuss to much about your personal life with them (not as easy as it sounds) - remember they are only work acquaintances not real friends !!!
Good luck!!!
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First of all, keep your mouth shut and smile all the time. Then work on getting another job, and exit with professional notice. This is the only solution when chronic complainers come in and stir the pot.
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suman kumar answered
Backstabbing is very common in every office loll. Quiting is not the solution for your problem. Donot get irritated with these people. Calm down yourself everything will settle down
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Aisha answered
Well, its very simple. You should not quit at all. Its them who are at fault and you should not quit rather they should feel sorry. The problem right now is you can't make your boss understand. So take it easy right now. Just keep your head down. Be sweet to the two of them. But you will know when its the right time to hit back.Look out for time when they are most vulnerable and then hit back and complain to the boss.
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Anonymous commented
This is a good idea, but they are 2 and you are only one stand alone. How can you defeat them? I'm in the same situation and the only different is my job does not pay well. I love my position and my job because it is a non-profit organization and I love to serve my community. I'm having a major headache everyday when I see my manager and that co-worker. Let me tell you this, the week that they are on vacation, I feel like heaven on earth. There are so,..so peaceful and happy in the office.
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Keith Old answered
G'day,

Thank you for your question.

If possible, I would look for another job with a better working environment. However, that might not be possible in the current environment. In the meantime, I would seek to remain calm as one or more of your co-workers may move on or your boss.

Regards

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